Saturday, December 18, 2010

My Ideal Wedding

My Ideal Wedding


is one that I AM fully in control of PLANNING & EXECUTION... i want to wake up at 8am to get my make-up done & hair styled in less than an hour... dear dear arrived on the dot at 9am and i am allowed to join my 姐妹们 in tekan-ning him... =)... arrived at his place on time... tea ceremony, lunch and arrive back at my home for another round of tea ceremony by 12nn...

i would like to emphasis .... tea ceremony are meant to be for elders whom we respect and love... not some tom, dick or harry whom is related by blood but not close or worse, dun even knew they existed and even worst, invited by parents just for show and 面子 issue...


then everyone is to be rested by 1pm.... peace & quiet in the whole house till 3pm... reached peony jade at 4pm... make -up and hair styled by 5pm... justice of peace arrive on time at 515pm... rom ceremony over by 545pm.... rest and get all things ready by 7pm... guest (comprises of ppl whom the BRIDE & the GROOM wants to invite & not whom their PARENTS want to invite) arrive punctually by 730pm.... dinner to be served by 745pm.... a round of SINCERE happiness and joy sharing with sumptous dinner till 10pm... then hugs & kisses & goodbyes..... home sweet home....


How i wish MY wedding can go according to what i had planned... feel so helpless now that my idiotic mum is adding lots of "fakco" ceremony and procedures that she herself didnt follow but insists that i follow just because her friends say that i have to follow and inviting ppl that i dun know even existed or in bad blood with... i really dun mind following customs and traditions PROVIDED that she has always been a follower of chinese customs and traditions... i hate the feeling of doing things just because other ppl are doing it...
worse, i dun believe in it at all...


i know it's kind of rude... but i really feel that getting a marriage certificate is just like
obtaining a licence to officially get a house and give birth to kids... the wedding ceremony is a celebration for the two currently madly in love duos... it's a celebration for the willingness to live together, have children together and hopefully have a happy life together for the rest of their life...


i strongly believe that having a fruitful and happy marriage life in the many many years ahead really depends on the characteristics of the duos in the marriage... i really dun believe that as long as the couple carry out all the proper customs and traditions procedures, they will definitely 恩恩爱爱,白头偕老 and definitely give birth to a boy in the first round of pregnancy... if a happy marriage is really so easy then why are there so many divorce cases around??? does that mean they didnt carry out all the procedures???


written by a very very very super angry Candy... i really wanna the wedding to be over and done with QUICKLY so that mummy stop creating stunts and demanding stunts to be created.....argh!!!!!!!!.........

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