Saturday, April 30, 2011

我的三角恋

我的三角恋

super 莫名奇妙地, i m involved in a 三角恋 leh.... hahahaha.... i m exaggerating la... cos to me to be considered as a homewreaker, i must be the 第三者 mah.... but how is that possible (at least for now) when Mr Ang and I are still so lovely dovy leh.... hahaha....




today, i m going to share a drama... was initially very irritated by it ....and usually the more irritated i m, the more i will irritate the person who irritates me.... but leh... in the mist of irritating that irritant, i will cost more agony to a friend....so here i m lo...rattling with a non-sensical blog entry ....choose to do it here then to counter assult her on his facebook and make him feel worse.... argh.... trying to make it sound like i m damn nice lo...hahaha...why not, since this is my blog... =P




anyway, i have a teen-hood friend... not very close but once in a while hang out as a group... 15 years of friendship liao wor... let's call him Ben... and then, there's his beloved...let's call her Abagail.... hahahaha...so we have Ben with Abagail...




okay la...though my Ben is not as 帅 as this Ben, he's still maintain his looks and built rather well for his age lo... and he has a boyish face...plus plus.... but for Abagail mah.... in the same league as the one above lo.... drama seh.... hahahaha.....


anyway, the drama started when i shared with Ben this thinking of mine..."You need to love yourself first before you can learn to love others".... he gave me a feeling that he was not happy...he was confused.... he was being led in and out of a legal relationship during that period... why did i say that leh???? cos i chance upon some beach holidaying photos of abagail and her friends on facebook... she was even in 情侣装 with other ppl lo... and he did share that he was going through a rough patch....


anyway, because of that one sentence, i kenna left right up down on facebook by her and was labelled as someone who wants to break up her marriage...hello.... who is the one who wants a separation yet regret her own decision one wor???.... you wanted to go steady, Ben agreed, you wanted to get married, Ben agreed, you wanted a separation, Ben struggled and finally agreed, then suddenly you want to stay married and Ben had to agree also.... such a nice guy where to find???


anyway also not i coined the phrase one lo...went google and found that there are like 6,380,000 articles on "You need to love yourself first before you can learn to love others".... so i scolded her ignorant on my facebook page.... hahahaha... =P....


and after that, for a period of time, i tried not to comment anything on his facebook lo...think got 10 months???? dun even dare to wish him happy hatchday on facebook but have to wait for him to be online lo.... but was in a super good mood on thursday till i forgot about crazy abagail ....

made so many comments on other friend's status including Ben's.... i thought mine was rather harmless lo...he was complaining about having no starhub network the whole day...so i asked him to change to mio since he watches soccer too....then got scolded ignorant pig by abagail for praising singtel when singtel was the culprit who cut off starhub cable..... !!!

initially was super TL la... but after a while, find her a joke... hahaha...how come got such funny ppl one... meany me kept imagining that if i retaliate in my usual manner, i confirm can drive her up the wall... but at the same time, may create even more unhappiness between them .... so no choice lo... is really call 哑巴吃黄连, 有苦说不出... not really 说不出 and also not really 苦, is more of want to scold cannot scold... !@#$%$##@!.... hahaha...but being a self centred person, how can i tortore myself right???

so i shall keep my imagination here....how high do u think she will jump if i reply on facebook the following for calling me a homewreaker???

1) Ben, i din know u r in love with me till ur wifey call me a homewreaker leh...
2) Oh no, did ur wifey found out that i was in love with u that's y she's labelling me as a homewreaker???
3) Oh no, ur wifey found out about our affair that's y she's labelling me as a homewreaker....
4) Ben, did you forget to feed ur wifey medication???
5) Ben, where's the leash??? she's barking again...


lousy me can only think of 5.... but for a pea brain like me... good enough liao la.... anyway, decided to delete this friend off my facebook.... so that i wun accidentally comment on his posts again.... most importantly wun give abagail another chance to disrupt my mood with her barkings....i just love myself too much to let any crazy ppl affects me... =P ....i know she will still be barking but as long as i cant hear her, i dun care also.... i m a typical 眼不见为净 kind of person....

anyway, not friends on facebook does not means not friends in real live what.... and over the years, friends also come and go...even family members come and go.... that's part and parcel of life and something that i have gotten quite use to liao....nothing is permanent..... oopx..... so just be thankful that we had it once and move on bah.... =)

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